What advice should a nurse give to help facilitate sibling acceptance of a newborn?

Spending individual time with the older sibling is an effective strategy to facilitate acceptance of a newborn. This approach acknowledges the older sibling's feelings and provides them with reassurance and attention during a significant transition in the family dynamic. By spending quality time with the older sibling, the nurse helps to strengthen their bond and reinforces their self-esteem, ensuring that they do not feel overlooked or replaceable. This individual attention can also offer a space for the older sibling to express any emotions they might be feeling, making it easier for them to adjust to the new family member.

Involving the older sibling in baby care can be beneficial, fostering a sense of responsibility and connection, yet it might not address the sibling's need for personal attention and emotional support. Limiting time with the newborn can lead to feelings of jealousy or exclusion. Providing gifts from the newborn may create a positive association, but it doesn't necessarily fulfill the emotional need for individual attention and bonding with a parent or caregiver. Thus, while all options have their merits, spending dedicated time with the older sibling is the most comprehensive approach to promoting acceptance of the newborn.